Thursday, August 19, 2010

Sour Note

The Band Played On

 As part of it's summer season of "Music in the Parks," the beautiful grounds of the Vanderbilt Mansion in Hyde Park, New York hosted a special performance of the prestigious, West Point Military Academy Band.

Such beautiful tunes of Tommy Dorsey, Irving Berlin and others from the big band era are enjoyed more in the likes of the company of that someone special while enjoying dinner makes it even more grand. The only exception was the sour note.

As the concert began to wind down, the maestro called special attention to "taking some time out to remember those who are sacrificing so that we may sit and enjoy this music." Also, "to those who served and who are awaiting to serve."

Immediately I began thinking to myself, "what about those who were serving proudly, only to be discharged for no other reason but DADT or those who want to serve but can't because of DADT?"

Following the concert, some came up and took pictures and gave their appreciation to the band. I decided (the shy and very nervous type) to head over to give "thanks and sorrow." As I approached the major, I said, "I enjoyed the music very much but at the same time was quite sadden to know so many who wish to serve can't because of DADT." His response, "I understand and sympathize." Hmmmmmmmmm...

For someone like me, it would be "double whammy" being I am not only queer, but disABLED too. We know how much the military has no use for individuals like myself even though, I too would fight for my country.

Standing up (ok, sitting down) for our rights!


Dreamland2 said...

I totally missed this concert ( you know, the Uniforms )--I think it took a great deal of courage to speak your mind, Bonnie;however, this is not an exception, since, here on your site you do much more every day: Thanks!

Dyke67ny said...

Thank you for your kind words.

I have to say, it took a lot of courage as my shyness and speaking up in front of some people sometimes doesn't go very well. A lot of what I do is "behind the scenes" and phone/letter contact.

Standing up (ok, sitting down) for our rights!